tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24185138368402743082024-02-07T01:24:56.719-08:00Cutting YourselfHow to stop cutting yourselfUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2418513836840274308.post-86120953148065808172014-11-23T10:55:00.001-08:002014-11-23T10:55:21.266-08:00Sad Depressed and Cutting<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Feeling sad is an emotion which does not garner enough
attention, usually those who are filled with sadness are advised that they will
soon get over it; this is not always the case. When in comes to self harm
cutting there is often a feeling sadness which may not be detected by the
person self harming. For many people they have become so use to being sad and
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Statistics show that <st1:place>Europe</st1:place> has been
experiencing rising numbers of self harm cases; one of the most frequently
cited reasons by those self harming was a feeling of sadness. There are more
people on antidepressants than at any other time in the history of the <st1:place>Western
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Dr Sinead McGilloway from <st1:place><st1:placename>Maynooth</st1:placename>
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was one of the authors of a recent study which revealed emotional sadness as a
catalyst for driving so many to self harm. What is very shocking is the fact
that so many of those cutting themselves are not receiving any help. <o:p></o:p><br />
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“People were falling through the cracks of service provision”. There is
clearly a gap there that is being met by Pieta House (an organization
responsible for identifying and helping those who self harm)” said Dr.
McGilloway. Sad, depressed and cutting
has become the new normal for so many people; unfortunately many are living
this way without getting any help. The usual treatment for those who are self
harming is antidepressants, this has helped many but it does not get to the
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Drugs have been a huge help for the millions of people who are depressed, it
is a fact that there are millions of people who simply could not function
without the use of some antidepressant medications; but this should not be the
last step in the healing process. <o:p></o:p><br />
The underlying cause of cutting and self harm will always be emotional stress;
it is the hidden stresses which are at the root cause of all self harming, this
is what medication does not address. <br />
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Healing in private<br />
There is a way of address sadness, cutting and self harm without medications
which has been helping many, it is an inside out treatment which you perform
simply by reading a report. The Red Report is now used in over 10 countries by
people who are looking to address the issues of self harm alone and in private.
The Red Report can be used alone or with medications, it is an inside out
treatment which addresses the root cause of the self harm. <br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2418513836840274308.post-77321747617113897492014-11-18T13:58:00.001-08:002014-11-18T13:58:17.584-08:00Thoughts of cutting yourself? What you need to know<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Thoughts of cutting yourself is something which should be
taken very seriously, although there are many people who feel that cutters are
not suicidal this is not necessarily the truth. There are many people who are
self harming who may not know that this tendency can lead towards suicide. If
you are entertaining thoughts of cutting yourself you are not alone, there are
millions of people worldwide who are contemplating the very same thing. If you
feel suicidal it is crucial that you speak with someone immediately or call
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Cutters are often closer to suicidal contemplation than
they may be aware of; this is one of the hidden dangers of self harm. Many
cutters say that they are not thinking of taking their life but self harm is a
slippery slope rooted in stress that can lead to suicidal contemplation. The
roots of self harm are found in deep emotional stresses, these stresses may be
very apparent (such as school or family problems). When the emotional stresses of
life do not find a needed outlet this may cause a person to “turn on
themselves”. Self harm is an emotional response to what seem like an
inescapable stressful condition. Thoughts of cutting yourself must be taken
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The usual course of treatment for those who are self harming
is medications, antidepressants medication can be very helpful, and they do numb
the emotional pain. While medications can be helpful they should not be the
final stage in your recovery, drugs will never address the root cause of the
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There is a way to address thoughts of cutting yourself
without doctors, therapist or pill; there is an inside out self heal technique
which can de-active a cutting thought. It has been helping people for more than 5
years. The Red Report is used in over 10 countries to de-active the impulse to
cut, as you heal alone in private. </div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2418513836840274308.post-31779446619523620362014-11-03T12:03:00.001-08:002014-11-03T12:03:50.043-08:00Help to Stop cutting myself<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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“I am seeking help to stop cutting myself”, this was the
email that we received over the weekend from a young woman who is battling the
urge to self harm. We are very familiar with the temptation and urges which are
associated with self harming, it is important to remember that cutters have an
addiction; the action is a brain response to a stress. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The young woman’s cry is very revealing, “I am
seeking help to stop cutting myself”, and the good news is that the person
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Self harm is a brain reaction to an emotional stimuli, it is
a coping mechanism employ by the brain to deal with a stressful situation. The
numbers of people who are self harming is increasing in the <st1:country-region><st1:place>United
States</st1:place></st1:country-region> and <st1:place>Europe</st1:place>, a
recent report from <st1:place><st1:placename>Mayrood</st1:placename> <st1:placetype>University</st1:placetype></st1:place>
highlighted the tremendous number of women self harming in <st1:country-region><st1:place>Ireland</st1:place></st1:country-region>.
The University study reports that more than 10 percent of young women are self
harming, what makes matters worst is that there is no way to tell how many more
people are not being counted. We can now understand that like our emailer’s
message “Seeking help to stop cutting myself” is not as rare as once believed,
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This website has made it clear for over the last 5 years
that the numbers of people self harming will continue to climb; this is because
the root causes of the action are not being addressed. Doctors usually
prescribed antidepressants for those who self harm, this can be a great help but
we are left with a major problem, medications do not address the root causes of
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There is some good news; t<span lang="EN" style="mso-ansi-language: EN;">here is a new technique which has been helping many people with seeking how
to stop cutting themselves in an amazing way. It is a selgf help approach <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>that has been having great success with self
injury, it involves no doctors, and no therapy; actually the cutter heals alone
in private. You are filled back up, replacing with is missing and causing the
self harm. You heal yourself alone and this cutting self help is effective, it
is an inside-out treatment that has been helping teens and adults who self harm.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2418513836840274308.post-3422302995894791402014-08-15T11:01:00.002-07:002014-08-15T11:01:47.224-07:00Cutting and Depression is a growing problem<br />
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Cutting and depression are often linked, but the sad fact of
the matter is that a new study shows that most in <st1:country-region><st1:place>England</st1:place></st1:country-region>
are not being treated despite being depressed.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Mental illness is a very debilitating illness, a depressive mental state
affects every aspect of a person’s life, for example many are unable to hold
steady employment. Those who self harm may get an emotional urge to cause
injury to their own body. According researchers cutting and depression seem to
have a very strong link. <o:p></o:p><br />
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In a very startling study which was released last week, it
was reported that over 2/3 of people in the <st1:country-region><st1:place>England</st1:place></st1:country-region>
who are depressed are not receiving any treatment for the condition, this is very
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Professor Simon Wessely of King's College London stated that about 70% of
people receive absolutely no treatment for clinical depression in the <st1:country-region><st1:place>United
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waiting for – well, we don't really know, but certainly more than 18 weeks,
possibly up to two years, for their treatment and that is routine in some parts
of the country. Some children aren't getting any treatment at all – literally
none. That's what's happening. So although we have the aspiration, the gap is
now so big and yet there is no more money," he said</b>.<o:p></o:p><br />
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are the least likely to get any treatment at all, with cutting and depression
linked we can see how this is a very troubling situation. It is crucial that
those who are self harming understand that it is very important to take steps
to address the self harm. Many cutters will need antidepressants, this has
helped many but do stop there; take your healing further.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />
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Medications can be great but they will never get to the root causes of why
you are depressed and self harm. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The Red
Report is still the number one method to heal self harm alone and in private;
you will learn how to address self harm on your own, the report was created by
cutters for cutters and it works. <o:p></o:p><br />
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We received an email from a young woman 23, who is depressed
and self harming, she has stated that she is in a very difficult stage of her
life and sees no hope. It is a sad fact of the matter that cutting and other
forms of harm is increasing, we have predicted from our own research that
unfortunately more people will turn to cutting, it is going to get worst as
more people seek a way out of the corner which they feel they are backed into.
If you are depressed and self harming you are not alone, in this post we will
address how depression starts early in life, leading to a future generation of cutters.
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A new study reveals that children who
are identified as depressed from <st1:place><st1:placename>Pre</st1:placename> <st1:placetype>School</st1:placetype></st1:place>
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As depression increases so does the risk of self harm,
studies show that timing is crucial, the earlier the stressful situations can
be addressed the better the chance for a hopeful outcome. If you self harm, do
recognize that this action is an outward manifestation of an internal stress. When
it comes to depression timing is crucial according to a new study from <st1:place><st1:placename>Washington</st1:placename>
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In a new study, the researchers revealed that children suffering
from depression as young as age 4 were almost 3 times as likely to battle
depression in elementary and middle school as children who were not depressed
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psychiatrist Joan L. Luby, MD, who directs </b><st1:place><st1:placename><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Washington</b></st1:placename><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> </b><st1:placetype><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">University</b></st1:placetype></st1:place><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">’s Early Emotional Development Program. “But the good news is that if
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The internal stresses of life start early, if you are
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families, relationships or abuses; these are often the real causes for self
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If you are seeking ways to stop cutting yourself but are
tired of hearing the same old advice which really does not seem to work; you
are not alone. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>People trying to help who
do not understand self harm often become very discouraged when they hear that a
loved one or friend has started self harming. There are times when the person
harming is seeking ways to stop self harm. You may want to stop cutting
yourself but have just not found the solution to the problem. In a very
disturbing case a teacher in the <st1:country-region><st1:place>United Kingdom</st1:place></st1:country-region>
(<st1:country-region><st1:place>England</st1:place></st1:country-region>) provided
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Trying to get a person to stop self harm can be a very
discouraging experience; the person trying to help may become very frustrated
or “fed up” to hear that their continual efforts have been unsuccessful; this
is possibly what is at the root cause of a teacher’s thinking to provide a
blade. This very bizarre and unhelpful choice was widely reported in the news. <o:p></o:p></div>
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At <st1:place><st1:placename>Unsted</st1:placename> <st1:placetype>Park</st1:placetype>
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where children between the age of 7 and 16 attend there was a school policy to
give the students blades when they felt they needed to self harm as along as it
was supervised. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>One the school policy
was discovered it was quickly abandoned just six days following outraged
parents and protests. There is an investigation which will render a decision
against the teacher and school very shortly. <o:p></o:p><br />
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The Procedure: Officials told staff to give the student access to sterilized
blades and take the child to a bathroom where the student could cut themselves.
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The sad fact of the matter is that most
cutters are seeking ways to stop cutting themselves; this is not an acceptable
solution. The school policy is a cop-out. <o:p></o:p><br />
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had done. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">The teacher was taught how to
dress and treat the wound after the self harm was complete.</b><o:p></o:p><br />
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Ways to stop cutting yourself? They had No answers!<o:p></o:p><br />
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The astonishing policy of allowing supervised self harm underscores the fact
that most people have no solutions to self harm, why weren’t the students given
<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">“The Red Report: Self Harm solution”</b><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>to read? The report has been shown to help a
person stop self harm in 10 countries by alone; yet we see the same solutions
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</span>‘This was a short-term, local procedure introduced by the head teacher
and school principal who genuinely believed it was in the best interests of the
pupil”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>said a spokesperson for Priory
Group which runs the school. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Translated, this means that they had no
answers to cutting. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The answer to stop
cutting yourself has been revealed to thousands.<o:p></o:p></b><br />
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The Red Report Self Harm Solution which was started in <st1:country-region><st1:place>Denmark</st1:place></st1:country-region>
was published to read online by cutters, it was designed for those who self
harm to have a solution without therapists, doctors or even loved ones. It is
downloaded regularly and read in over 10 countries for over the last 5 years. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2418513836840274308.post-27833808274110151402013-04-30T09:44:00.001-07:002014-07-02T11:25:31.282-07:00Can't stop cutting Myself: Why this occurs<br />
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I can't stop cutting myself is a common
dilemma amongst those who practice this behavior, what many who self harm may not be aware of is that the act of self harm is extremely
addictive, like any other addiction it may see that you can take control
the behavior but this is not the truth, self harming can become a
very vicious cycle of emotional pain. It is a very common phrase “ I can't
stop cutting myself” and there is a good reason for this.</div>
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<b>Why Self harm is so addictive</b></div>
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All self harming stems from an
emotional stress, this is something that has been proven by mental
health officials, this emotional stress can coming from school, family, friends or other people who are close to you. The numbers of
people suffering from stress has increased dramatically over the past
decade according to the department of mental health, emotional stresses cause trouble in the body and the brain.
According to researchers at Ohio University constantly thinking on
your problems causes stressful inflammation in the body and brain.</div>
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Those who self harm often live in a continual depressed state of mind, in the study it was found that to ruminate
on stressful incidents( or a life of bad experiences) increased
levels of C-reactive protein, a marker of tissue inflammation.. The
study by Ohio University is the first to directly measure this
effect in the body. Reaching for the blade is a solution to the
stress and it may work but you will continually need this solution
and it often become an addiction, this is similar to those who turn to
alcohol for the solution to their stressful situation. When
interviewed by researchers in Europe (Scotland) “I can't stop cutting
myself” was a common confession amongst self harmers. Self Harm comes with a price, each cut
leaves a deeper emotional scar that you will have to live with, it is
a bad solution to an emotional depression or an overwhelming stress.
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<b>See here </b><a href="http://spirithappy.org/wp/cutting-yourself-why-doctors-cannot-cure-you/">Stopping Self Harm in 10 countries</a><br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2418513836840274308.post-74447931484846297182013-04-12T20:03:00.000-07:002013-06-17T09:05:27.073-07:00I ruined my life when I slept with...<br />
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“I ruined my life” it is a common
situation we hear so much today from teen girls who make a mistake
and end up nude on a very embarrassing video or cellphone. There has
been no less than 3 major news stories in the past 3 months of girls
who have slept with multiple guys at a party(the girls was drunk in
all cases) and the event ends up on hundreds of cellphone videos. “
I ruined my life”... The latest case is in California where a teen
girl just 15 hung herself after being videotaped having sex with
multiple guys(she was unconscious and drunk), the boys are being
charged with rape.</div>
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The rise in Depression
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Depression statistics from the
department of mental health shows that there are been a very large
increase in the numbers of teens who are suffering from clinical
depression, the situation is just as gloomy for college students who
have seen a rise in their suicide rates over the last 10 years. Many
of the young people today are stressed and depressed and often that
can lead to alcohol as a form of release, the proliferation of
cellphone cameras are causing the bad decision of many girls to be
shared with thousands on the internet. The numbers of girls who
believe that they have ruined their lives after an encounter with
multiple guys are increasing.</div>
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Men have always bragged about their
intimate encounters but the proliferation of cellphone cameras have
teens taking the bragging rights to a whole new level, these
encounters are being shared on cellphone videos by teen boys, many of
the girls cannot live down the shame. Jessica Garcia just 15 threw
herself in front of a on coming train and died after 4 boys slept
with her and videotaped the encounter on their cellphones, the
videotaped encounter was shared with hundreds in the school. “ I
ruined my life” was what she believed and ended her life
violently, she admitted she could not take the shame. “I ruined my
life”, teens with cellphone cameras are taking another person's bad
decisions and shooting revealing all the details on an atomic level. <br />
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If you are cutting yourself and
depressed it is important to know that this can lead to a downward
spiral of more serious self harm, the numbers of young people
committing suicide is growing. Although most Mental health officials
say that a person who cuts is not trying to take their life what is
not mentioned is that many cutters do have suicidal thoughts very
often. Cutting yourself and feeling depressed does lead to increased
suicidal thoughts.</div>
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According to the British Medical
Journal, deliberate self harm ranges from behaviors with no suicidal
intent (but with the intent to communicate distress or relieve
tension) through to suicide. Almost 1 in6 adolescents will self harm
at some time in their life, and 1 in 2 older adolescents report
having had suicidal thoughts at some time. What this shows is that
cutting yourself with depressed feelings may be on the “lower end”
of the suicide range but many do progress from cutting to suicide.
The leap from the blade for cuts to an attempt on the life is not
that far, this is extremely troubling.
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All cutters are experiencing an inner
pain that comes from life situations, others make you cut. We are
seeing a growing number of bullying and school stresses leading to
self harm. If you are cutting yourself and depressed do not be
deceived because self harm and suicidal thoughts are linked, this was
revealed by researchers at School of Social and Community Medicine,
University of Bristol, they concluded</div>
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Compared to those who had never
self-harmed, those who had self-harmed but not wanted to die during
the most recent episode were at increased risk of ever having had
suicidal thoughts and ever making suicidal plans. As the frequency
of self-harm increased, so did the risk of suicidal thoughts and
plans.
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Cutting yourself is not a simple
release of tension from stress, it is an act that has a strong link
to suicidal thoughts, many who have committed suicide were cutters
earlier in life or engaged in other acts of self harm when depressed.
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Self harm is a bad solution to an inner
problem uses caused by others.
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Can you stop cutting yourself is a good
question and the answer lies within the cutter, there are cutters who
say they “needed” to do it, it is something that gets them
through the pain they are experiencing. Can you stop depends on the
situation and where you are in your life, all cutters are not the
same, each person is experiencing a different feeling. Can you stop
cutting yourself or is it something that will always continue? This
is a question we received from a girl who had been cutting for many
years, stopped and then relapsed.</div>
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There are many who thought they had
conquered self harming only to find that something in life triggers
the feeling to cut again, this can be a very disappointing feeling,
it is important to realize that if you start hurting yourself again
it does not mean that you have failed. The situation is different for
each person and depending on what you are going through you may be
led to start hurting yourself again. It may seem like you have failed
but this is not the case, it simply means that you suffered a set
back, do not judge yourself to harshly.
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Self harm can be an addiction and like
any other addiction we sometimes fall down and go back to doing
something that we know inside is not really right, often cutters are
very hard on themselves when they start harming again. It is
important to understand that this is an addiction that can be
triggered, the cutter may not s have seen abetter way to handle what they were
going through at the time. Can you stop cutting yourself? Yes, but
make the full effort to take control of the problem and realize sometimes we fall down</div>
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<b>The Red Report: Self harm</b> Stop
cutting on your own in private now in 10 countries
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See here <a href="http://spirithappy.org/wp/cutting-yourself-why-doctors-cannot-cure-you/">Stopping Self Harm in 10 countries</a></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2418513836840274308.post-53961012389009890052013-04-02T09:18:00.000-07:002013-06-17T09:06:41.564-07:00Depressed, cutting yourself? Take control <br />
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Are you depressed and cutting yourself?
If this is your situation you are not alone. The numbers of people
self harming has increased in the United States and much of Europe
over the last 10 years. What is even scarier is the fact the average
age of the cutters are getting younger, recent hospital records in
England show 10 years being admitted for self harm. If you are
depressed and cutting yourself it is a sign that you do need help but
getting the right help is important.</div>
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The incredible rise in self harm
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In Scotland, Europe the numbers of
people self harming has skyrocketed, according to the <span style="color: #464646;"><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">
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Finnie, he was quoted as saying the numbers are <b>“astonishing”</b>
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He continued "This was backed up
by a more recent report into child and adolescent mental health which
warned about the prevalence of self-harm and the<b> lack of
systematic support.</b></div>
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"The health secretary needs to act on these figures and
address the concerns about mental health services outlined by Audit
Scotland” What is telling about his statement is the admission that
there is a lack of support for those who are suffering, if you are
depressed and cutting yourself there may not be anyone available to
help you, this is why it is important to take steps to help yourself
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What's in a pill?</div>
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The usual treatment for a person who is
self harming is to receive anti depressants and this is a good
option, it is not the only option and it should not be the last step
in your healing. You should go beyond a pill to get to the root
causes of your self harm. The emptiness inside will never be filled
with a pill if you are depressed and cutting yourself. There is some
good news, many people have been helped alone in private by reading
the “Red Report” Self harm, it has now been read in over 10
countries by people who self harm, it can take you beyond pills. See
here <a href="http://spirithappy.org/wp/cutting-yourself-why-doctors-cannot-cure-you/">The Red Report Self Harm </a>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2418513836840274308.post-35864354851523836352013-03-17T18:08:00.000-07:002015-04-29T11:08:26.061-07:00When Cellphone photos led to self harm and suicide<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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The case of the Steubenville High school football players has ended and the boys have been found
guilty of rape, the case was busted wide open when photos of the
victim was passed around by the players on their cell phones. The
pictures show a teen girl completely knocked out and drunk being
dragged around by a group who all had sex with her. This story
brings to mind another young girl who was in a similar situation but
did not live to see her tormentors brought to justice.</div>
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Felicia Garcia and cellphone pictures</div>
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Felicia Garcia was a 15 year old high
school student who grew up with no family, her parents were killed at
an early age in an accident. She grew up in various foster homes.
Felicia, like so many young girls today had no father and very little
direction, One day she made the mistake of sleeping with a member of a Staten Island football team, sadly this turned into a very bad
situation. 4 members of the football team ended up
having intercourse with her at the same time, as bad as the situation
was it became worst.
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<b>Cellphones are the new parents</b></div>
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Teens do everything on their phones
today, the most intimate details of their lives are shared with
friends on their phones. It is a world where adults are not permitted
to enter. One of the most disturbing trends among teenagers is the
sharing of details by cellphone video, the boys who had sex with
Felicia recorded it on their cellphones and shared the footage. Soon
many of the students were passing around Felicia’s bad decision with
the football team.<br />
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She was humiliated, she was taunted continually in school and tried to
ignore what happened that horrible night. She later confessed to a friend that she could not
take it anymore of the bullying. Girls jealous of Felicia looks, all shared the video to more people. When Felecia could not take the taunting she began to break. With no family she felt like the lonely person in the world. The
video that lived forever on the boy's cellphones was too much for her.<br />
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<b>I give up</b><br />
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Felicia stood on a subway platform as scores of students waited for the train, she jumped in
front of the on coming train. She died at the scene.
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Sadly, in the United States 15 year old
boys are heroes if they can kick or catch a ball. Many of the Staten
Island parents were worried that the boys would be suspended and miss
some “important football games”. Many blame the school for protecting the players (One teen had a scholarship to play college football) In a fatherless
generation many of the young girls are suffering, the role of a
loving supportive male is crucial to a young girl's development. In the pass a horrible mistake that Felicia made may have only be a rumor, but with social media the world sees.<br />
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A 15 year old girl who had no one in this world chose to be intimate with one boy, he quickly turned her over to his friends to do as they wanted.<br />
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The
hidden world of teen cellphones and social media has caused bullying to be taken to
another disgusting level. It is time parents demand to know what is happening on
their teen's phone, It is time for Fathers to protect their daughters. At 15, teens do not have the intelligence or
experience to use these mobile devices unsupervised, It is time for parent to step up and
start parenting. Catching a football does not make a child
exceptional but character and good behavior does. </div>
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<b><span style="font-size: large;">In Memory of Felicia Garcia</span></b> </div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2418513836840274308.post-71846547849394484812013-03-15T17:23:00.001-07:002013-06-17T09:07:09.461-07:00Cutting and Depressed is a sad combination<br />
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Cutting and Depressed is the situation
that so many are finding themselves in, hospitalization statistics
show girls barely 12 year old are self harming, it is a growing
dilemma. The United Kingdom has a very troubling self harm problem.
The latest hospitalization numbers show that self harm is definitely
increasing in England. For every person self harming it is an
individual who is not getting the help that they need. To cut is a
solution to an emotional stress, cutting and depressed is a very sad
combination, sadly the 2 often go well together.</div>
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They have no answers</div>
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It is common to hear a cutter say that
the people who they look to for help have no answers, something is
missing and the harmer is falling in between the cracks. No one
starts their day looking forward to harming their bodies, it is
always an underlying stress that is behind self harm. It is possible
to know that it is wrong to harm and still do it, knowing it is not
right does not mean you will have the power to stop the act, it is a
solution to a problem. Depression and cutting is a sad situation to
be in but it is how so many are living.
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Guys also harm</div>
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It is not only the girls who are
harming but the girls are starting out younger and younger. 10 year
old girls harming? It is the new reality but so many don't know what
to do about it. The guys also harm, maybe not with a blade but with
other risky behaviors, it is really scary when you think about it.
You may be pushed against a wall and then comes a tremendous amount
of pressure. The roots of depression are linked to many who are
cutting themselves. <br />
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Self harm becomes an addiction, why not take charge and reverse this today, like thousands in over 10 countries who have read the Red Report Self harm Cure<br />
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See here <a href="http://spirithappy.org/wp/cutting-yourself-why-doctors-cannot-cure-you/">Stopping Self Harm in 10 countries</a></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2418513836840274308.post-1619788831333564502013-03-11T12:13:00.000-07:002013-06-17T09:07:41.896-07:00Still cutting myself: What to do about this<br />
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I know it is wrong but I am still
cutting myself, this was the latest message that we received last
week. There are many who are in the same situation, they understand
that self harm is not good but they have difficulty stopping, this is
not uncommon. Cutters are often very intelligent and insightful, they
often know that what they are doing is not right. I know it is wrong
but “I am still cutting myself” If this is the situation you find
yourself in this post is for you.</div>
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The roots of Self harm</div>
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A cut is something that usually happens
by accident, we have all experienced this, it is a harm to the body.
Self harming is purposely causing injury to the body. It is important
to think about the act, you are actually causing your own harm. This
may seem obvious but it is good to really think about the action.
“The Red Report self harm” revealed to thousands of cutters that
the inner pain is manifested as a self harming thought. Logically,
self harming may no make sense but the act is based on an inner
emotionally stress. “ I am still cutting myself” The statement
reflexes a deep inner stress that causes the thoughts of self harm.
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Knowing this is wrong does not change
the fact that the stress and pressure is building up and leading to a
thought of harm. The number of people harming themselves is on the
increase, in much of Europe there is a crisis. In England the numbers
of people harming has tripled in the last 10 years according to the
NHS. Hospital admittance for self harm is on the upswing and the
harmers are starting younger. Medications are the usual course of
action but this is only one option. As much as anti depressants are
useful they may not resolves the root causes of the emotional
stresses which cause self harm. “I am still cutting myself” This
is not the situation you want to stay in because each cut leaves a
deeper emotional scar.
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The Red Report has been used to stop
self harm in private and own your own in over 10 countries.<br />
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See here <a href="http://spirithappy.org/wp/cutting-yourself-why-doctors-cannot-cure-you/">Stopping Self Harm in 10 countries</a></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2418513836840274308.post-31447210417353112182013-02-28T19:37:00.001-08:002013-06-17T09:08:07.846-07:00Do you have to tell a doctor you are cutting yourself<br />
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Do you have to tell your doctor that
you are cutting yourself is a very common question. There are many
who cut and try to make sure that parents or medical doctors do not
find out what they doing. Self harm is growing amongst teens and
adults in England, the situation is getting worst according to the
NHS. Why are so many wondering if they have to tell a doctor that
they are cutting themselves? The reason is clearly that the cutter
knows that this is something that is simply wrong.</div>
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A physical act that stems from a
emotional cause</div>
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If you are self harming it is a sign
that something is emotional wrong, harming your body is not healthy
behavior, it may not be your fault that you started self harming, we
have shown for over 4 years that most cutters were pushed emotional
into a corner. Often parents have no clue that their child is self
harming, there is a shrewd of secrecy that surrounds self harm. A
cutter may or may not be suicidal but they are not happy either. A
person who cuts is performing a physical action but the reasons are
completely emotional
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The Doctor may know you harm yourself</div>
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Doctors are very good at seeing
emotional issues and self harm is definitely an emotional issue, self
harm is a solution to an inner dissatisfaction. When a doctor
discovers that a person is harming they may refer the cutter to have
a mental evaluation. Often cutters are afraid that they will be
viewed as crazy or will be forced to be put on medication. Do you
have to tell your doctor that you are cutting? No but this issue
should not be ignored, it must be addressed.</div>
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The Red Report is now in over 10
countries and as helped stop thousands in private to stop self
harming without medications. See here <a href="http://spirithappy.org/wp/cutting-yourself-why-doctors-cannot-cure-you/">Stopping Self Harm in 10 countries</a></div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2418513836840274308.post-30520783043182485522013-02-25T15:17:00.001-08:002013-06-17T09:08:35.544-07:00I am addicted to cutting myself<br />
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I am addicted to cutting myself was the
last email that we received yesterday, the mail from a 20 year young
woman reinforced much of the emotional abuse that she has lived with.
Bullying was one of the events that caused this young woman pain when
she was a teen. The teasing and feel of loneliness lead her on a very
destructive path. “I am addicted to cutting myself” how do I
stop? This was her question</div>
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We can say that after 4 years of
working with cutters that reading “The Red Report” will address
the cutting problem immediately. In the case of this woman self harm
started after living a very disastrous life in high school. She did
not feel like she had any close friends, bullying started with name
calling and progressed to silly pranks which other girls thought was
funny but caused much pain to our cutter. There are thousands of
people self harming all over Europe and the United States, in
addition self harm is a huge problem in Asia but it is seldom spoken
of. “I am addicted to cutting myself”, it is a cry of many who
deal with this issue alone</div>
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<b>Why you cut</b></div>
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Self harm is a solution to a problem,
it is a method that is used to stop an emotional emptiness, like a
drug the self harm does seem to work but it is only temporary, you
will soon cut again. The inner problem is never solved with cutting
it is a vicious cycle and you never heal. Science is revealing that a
technique of going inside to the root of the pain and emptiness can
help you stop self harming, this is not with a therapist but alone.
This new way is helping you regain the power and control that has
been taken from you. I am addicted to cutting is what has brought
thousands to the The Red Report which is read in 10 countries See
here <a href="http://spirithappy.org/wp/cutting-yourself-why-doctors-cannot-cure-you/">Stopping Self Harm in 10 countries</a></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2418513836840274308.post-68897929781975185532013-02-20T07:47:00.002-08:002013-06-17T09:09:00.169-07:00Internet Addiction and Self harm<br />
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Researchers believe internet
addiction,depression,self harm are linked. The internet has been
thought of as a good source of brain activity for those who are
depressed and it can be but a study is debating this. While the
internet can provide entertainment and brain activity, self harm
addiction combined with depression may not work well with long
internet hours say researchers.</div>
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Depression is complex</div>
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Depression is very complex and each
person has a unique reaction when they are depressed. Self harming is
when a person purposely harms themselves usually with a blade or
knife, the act may not be an attempt at suicide but it does reveal a
deep underlying emotional problem. The numbers of people self harming
have increased over 200% over the last 10 years according to the
center for mental health. This figures may be low as many are not
open to admitting self harming.
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Lawrence Lam, an epidemiologist at the
University of Notre Dame in Fremantle, Australia, and his colleague
Zi-Wen Peng at SunYat-Sen University in Guangzhou, China Studied
heavy internet users and they did find a correlation between internet
time and depression.
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<b>"The results indicate that
people who use the Internet pathologically are most at risk of mental
problems and would develop depression when they continue with that
behavior."</b><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><br /></span></span></div>
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On this site we have worked with
depressed cutter for over 4 years and we can say that the study
conclusion may be in error, we have found that what people are
searching for is more important than how long they are
searching(surfing). For example our research shows that certain music
and pornography can increase depression but video game sites do not
seem to increase depression. In addition, news sites seem to relieve
depression for some reason in many people. From our research
internet addiction and self harm(depression) do not correlate. <span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;"><br /></span></span></div>
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The typical treatment for self harm is
medication, depending on the person different forms of medication can
be utilized. Medications can be good and they can save lives but it
is important not to stop at medication, there must come an inner
healing. The inside out technique from the Red Report detailed how a
cutter can address the issue and reverse the problem private. Self
harm addiction is not normal and indicates a emotional stress.
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<b>See here <a href="http://spirithappy.org/wp/cutting-yourself-why-doctors-cannot-cure-you/">Stopping Self Harm in 10 countries</a></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">The act of cutting yourself is an
addiction, it may start as a solution to a stressful situation but it is a very dangerous solution, in fact, self harm is never a
solution. The numbers of people self harming is increasing rapidly,
many are not sure exactly why they cut but they do feel the need to
hurt themselves. Any act of harm on yourself or others is not good,
regardless of whether you think you are in control of the self harm
or not, harming anyone is not good. Cutting yourself for many people is truly an
addiction, stopping can be extremely difficult.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Stressful situation</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Stress is at the root cause of cutting,
dissatisfaction in life and unhappiness will always be at the root
cause of harm. When a person feels like their back is against a wall
and there is no escape from themselves or others it will creates stress.
Emotional stress can come from parents, teachers or even friends. The
end result is always dissatisfaction and inner pain which can
manifest as self harm, this can become the chosen method of easing
the pain. This can develop into a very dangerous habit, cutting
yourself can be an addiction.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">To medicate or not to medicate? The typical treatment for self harm is
medication, depending on the person different forms of medication can
be utilized. Medications can be good and they can save lives but it
is important not to stop at medication, there must come an inner
healing, you must address the source of the self harm. The answer to
self harm resides on the inside not the outside. The outward act of
self harm is due to an inner dissatisfaction. This was detailed fully in the Red Report as far back as 4 years ago. The inner is causing the outward act of self harm and it can ruin your life if not treated. Be well</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><b>***The Red Report: Stopping Self harm cutting in 10 countries**</b> Click here </span><a href="http://spirithappy.org/wp/cutting-yourself-why-doctors-cannot-cure-you/">Stopping Self Harm in 10 countries</a></div>
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Why can't I stop cutting myself was a
common question from a group of teens who had been harming
themselves. The numbers of adults as well as teens who are self
harming has been increasing according to recent health reports from Europe, Asia and the United States. Researchers are alarmed
at the rising trend which has been affecting so many people. Often
those practicing self harm behavior cannot actually verbal why they do the act. “I can't
stop cutting myself” , this was the major issue at a current teen
conference which was held in the United States.</div>
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The rising trend in self harm<br />
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Dr. Lee Lewis, at the Medical
University of South Carolina spoke about the rising level of teens who are
harming themselves</div>
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“I don't think anyone would say it's
trendy or cool. It's painful,” Dr. Lewis explained. “The biggest
risk factor is knowing or caring for someone who self injures. What
you see is pockets that spring up in close knit areas” <br />
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We have
worked with cutters from many years and this website can tell you that cutters do what they do
to relieve an inward stress. Emotional stress is at the root cause of
all self harming, the act of causing a “cut” is an outward action which is coming from
an inward emotional stress. Self harm can develop into a very addictive behavior, it is an act used by many to “say something”; it is an outward
expression which is not good. If you are saying “I can't stop
cutting myself” you are not alone, this problem can be solved.</div>
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The Red Report is the best selling
report for the last 5 year to stop self harm alone, no therapists or doctors. The most important
thing to understand is that self harm is a very destructive habit, each
cut leaves an emotional reminder of an inward problem. When you
learn to fill back up what is missing then you will stop self harming. This is the
technique from the “Red Report” that is now used in 12 countries</div>
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If you are saying "I can't stop cutting
myself", please understand that you are not alone and there is help. <br />
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*The Red Report* may be read now here <a href="http://spirithappy.org/wp/cutting-yourself-why-doctors-cannot-cure-you/">Stopping Self Harm in 10 countries</a></div>
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